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PSA: "Merry Christmas!" You're Doing It Wrong!!!

Just a friendly public service announcement to clear the air about all of this "War on Christmas"   -   "Happy Holidays" hysteria .   I am please to inform you that you are NOT actually experiencing religious oppression, but instead are suffering   from the unfortunate aftermath of being brought up with bad manners.   You were always free to say "Merry Christmas"....you simply never   understood what   in fact you were actually saying.   The great news for you is with this 3 minute class in basic common decency and etiquette,   you too can go back to saying Merry Christmas literally thousands of times a day! The reason you think you are being oppressed by being asked not to say "Merry Christmas!" is because you were never told that greetings are always well wishes for the RECIPIENT OF THE GREETING!!!    When you say "Good Morning" you are saying a shortened version of "Hello! I hope YOU are having a good morning!" not &qu
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Talking Turkey About Illegal Immigration

Just in time for Thanksgiving (ironically a similar topic on which you have been subtly brainwashed your whole life to sympathize with the exploiter instead of the exploited), let's put our napkins in our laps as I serve up a heaping helping of the hypocrisy surrounding the discussion of illegal immigration! There appears to be no more popular whipping boys in Conservative discussion circles these days than the "evil illegal immigrants", who apparently spend their time simultaneously stealing all the jobs from hard working Americans while at the same time lazing about doing nothing as they live off the American dole, presumably while twisting their evil villain mustaches and maniacally laughing. They also apparently moonlight as the United States main sources of drug dealers and rapists while concurrently hanging out in hospital beds using up all of America's healthcare resources. Stated simply, Conservatives believe illegal immigrants are America's best multi-t

APPLICATION FOR PERMISSION TO FEAR

For those of you who do not have People of Color, non-Christians, or women in your lives to share their stories with you, but are still finding it hard to find the legitimacy in why these groups are freaking out and so scared and angry right now under the Trump administration...I will share with you the personal experiences of my life as a Jewish African American Woman that have "colored" my world view and justified my fear and anger. I am sharing them not because my experiences are exceptional, but because the are so average. I've lived my whole life in the cradle of Liberal New England, so this list could be so much worse. APPLICATION FOR PERMISSION TO FEAR The first time I was called Nigger was in 2nd grade. My White teacher tried to console me by assuring me that I "wasn't really Black, more like Café Ole", making it clear even to my childhood self that being darker was worthy of derision. Since then I have been called Nappy, Monkey, Oreo, and a

Understanding and Living with "The Fear"

If you are wondering why so many People of Color, non-Christians, LGBTQ people and women you know have lost their damn minds, talking about being scared and being hyper-paranoid and freaking out over nothing, let me try to explain. It's not that we all suddenly went nuts or can't handle people having different political philosophies....it is just that we live with "The Fear". "The Fear" has been here for generations before Trump and will likely continue for many years to come. We usually don't burden those outside our groups with "The Fear" because we know it would upset you and that you could never really understand it till you lived it anyway. The emotional posts you have been seeing are the inner dialog these groups have been having around you their whole lives, so I can understand why they might be disturbing to really see for the first time, so let me break down "The Fear" for you. "The Fear" starts when yo